I’ll stay present and give you quiet space but I can’t guarantee I won’t get overwhelmed too—I'm not superhuman, I’m autistic.

If it’s an emergency, I understand—life happens.

Otherwise, I ask for at least a day’s notice. I mentally prep and review notes before every meeting, so short-notice cancellations without a solid reason feel unfair and can make me question how reliable our collaboration might be.

If being professional means showing up in your PJs and cracking dark humour jokes, go for it.

And if you’re able, leave your mask at the door. I’d much rather work with the real you.

I’m not a therapist, but if something feels like too much, say so. We’ll pause, adjust, or simplify where we can.

I’m a late-diagnosed autistic person with first-hand experience of what it means to be neurodivergent—what it’s like to be disabled, forced to mask, and excluded by society. Because of that, I relate to other ND people, their struggles, and needs.
I may not always empathise with experiences outside of my own—but I am aware that everyone’s perspective is different, and it guides my interactions with other ND people.

I am neurospicy!! ☺️

Oh, you mean from other ND VAs? Like every VA—ND or not—I’m unique.

It’s not about my services or retainers. It’s about me and what I bring to the table.
I am functionality, quality, and efficiency.

I’m like autistic clothes—not flashy, but the best damn solution to the sensory problem.

I’m a doer, thinker, and problem-solver. I’m not a florist who arranges beautiful bouquets out of words.
I use words to communicate: clearly, directly, efficiently. If that’s not your thing, hire the florist.

Like a squirrel, I’m endlessly curious. Digital tools fire me up. I love figuring out systems, mastering them, and then becoming efficient like a Swiss watch.

As an added bonus, I’m quirky, optimistic, always preparing for the worst but hoping for the best.
And most importantly—I’m like L’Oréal: Worth it.

Not at all. I feel incredibly lucky that I was able to pursue and receive an official diagnosis—but I know how ridiculously hard it can be for others.

Depending on where you live, the waiting lists can be years long, the costs are back-breaking, and it's extremely difficult to find competent diagnosticians. If I were in your position, unable to access a diagnosis to get that final confirmation, I’d go crazy.

I admire all of you who self-identify for your strength, conviction and courage to trust your inner voice. You belong to the tribe and deserve support when you need it.

I’m queer, neurodivergent, and very familiar with what it feels like to be disabled by NT society.

I believe everyone has the right to live their life without needing to explain or justify who they are.
Diversity isn’t a problem to solve—it’s the people who who refuse to value difference.

People who are:

• disrespectful
• passive-aggressive
• constantly changing expectations
• unwilling to communicate clearly—even when something’s wrong—we won’t be a good fit.

I don’t do games, mixed signals, or micromanagement.

I need clarity, consistency, and mutual respect.

If you expect perfection but can’t give feedback, or you don’t value humour or humanity, I’m not your VA.

Nope! If being on camera feels uncomfortable, you can point it away or turn it off completely. As long as we can chat by voice, we’re good.

Absolutely! If you prefer email, just select that option when booking your Discovery Chat.

No problem at all! I often need extra time myself—so I understand. Take the time you need; there’s no rush here.

Of course. We’re both ND—do whatever helps you feel comfortable.

Short breaks (up to 10 minutes) are totally fine during our 45-minute call.

If you think you’ll need more time away, we might need to pause and reschedule.

I'm ND too, so I might forget as well! 😅
That's why I'll be taking notes for both of us.

• You can click on any of the “Book the Chat” buttons on the website, or book the Discovery Call directly.
• Once you fill out the form, you’ll be able to book a date that works for you. On the day, we’ll connect using your preferred communication method.
• You can ask anything, and I’ll explain things in as little or as much detail as you want.
• If we both feel good about moving forward, I’ll send over a contract for you to review. If you have questions—just ask.
• When you’re happy and send it back signed, we’ll schedule one more chat to go over technicalities.
• Then I get to work—and you get to focus on the business side of your business.

I use digital tools to stay organized and follow the priorities we agree on during setup—whatever matters most to you will lead the way.

I might have a bit of flair for writing, but when it comes to person-to-person communication, I prefer it short, direct, to the point—and detailed. Conversations use up a lot of processing power, so the less distraction the better.

That’s music to my ears!

Yes, yes, and yes.

I'm not NT—and I’m not here to judge, I’m here to help. If everything was already perfect, you wouldn’t need me, right?

Tell me, when is a brain-dump ever organized?

But I’ll do my best to catch the key points.

Then I’ll help you figure it out—and you might be surprised just how much there is.

That depends on what stage we’re at and what you’re comfortable with.

In the beginning, more frequent communication may be needed—we’ll both have questions, clarifications, and things to align on. Over time, as I get used to your work style and tasks, I’ll need less guidance and will shift into autopilot mode. At that point, check-ins become less frequent.

We can do live check-ins weekly or bi-weekly to stay in sync, especially early on. Once things are flowing, monthly or as-needed is usually enough—whatever feels right for you.

These check-ins help us:

• Review the progress and processes
• Plan or prioritise what’s next
• Clarify any confusions
• Brainstorm or make decisions in real-time
• Address anything that’s not working

But live calls aren't mandatory. If you prefer, we can keep it asynchronous through the client portal, messages, or pre-recorded notes. As long as we’re communicating clearly and nothing gets blocked, live check-ins are optional.

Let me know what works best for your brain and we’ll build around that.

I usually work for 3–4 hours after I get up, then I need to decompress. Later at night—around 11pm—when my brain feels fresh again, I work for another 2–3 hours. I’m not available outside of those times.

I aim for less but 48hrs is the maximum.

We should but if we can't then we're not meant to work together.

Mistakes happen—we’re human. Most of us have spent our lives being punished for crossing boundaries we didn’t even know existed, so I’m not going to turn around and do that to you.
But if I let you know you’ve crossed a line and ask you not to do it again, then going forward, you do know. From that point on, it’s no longer accidental.